Thursday, May 18, 2006

Relationships

"Well, I have figured out something, mates are strange bed fellows. Never wanting what they have and always wanting more then what they have. We search and court each other because we don't want to be alone, then when we finally find a mate that we think we must have, we do the courting dance to get them to want us as much as we want them, only to find out they were never for the taking or one of us don't want the other. This really hurts and causes everyone a lot of pain and mistrust, and we then ask our selves where did we go wrong...Again?
And is their such a thing as a perfect-mate for us? Or do we all forget to look outside of ourselves, and try to learn to be happy with what we have for the moment, because it may be gone just as fast. And ask ourselves this, if this person was to die tomorrow and suddenly be gone for ever, would we of wished we would of spent that time we could of had with them even if it wasn't that great all the time. Then to of never given the feelings we had a chance to grow, because we were always looking for something better. Now...What we did have is gone with this person for...Ever!! Because we as humans always want more then what we had, and now have lost the one person forever who made us feel like we had something to live each day for....Thoughts by Me"